Friday, March 21, 2014

I'm Baffled?


When I make the statement, ‘I’m baffled,” I’m referring to total bewilderment pertaining to us as Believers. I don’t know when we became so self-righteous, religious and mostly so very full of pride?

There is too much judgment living inside the Body of Christ with a great overflow to the outside world. The Church is not doing her job. We are not being the light we are supposed to be. We are falling short of even helping our own. We are pouring vinegar in the wounds of others when what they really need is the healing balm of love.

It is no wonder, people are not accepting Christ and being saved—they are hard pressed to see His light through so many of us. We are puffed up in pride and arrogance—forgetting where we came from and that our righteousness before Christ was nothing more than a pile of filthy menstrual rags.

You may be one of the most fashionable dressers around, live in a beautiful home, drive an expensive and prestigious car, have a successful husband and good looking children, but none of that will draw the world to Jesus. And I say that because everyone in the world is not looking for the “broke down gospel”! Everyone is not sick, broke, uneducated, recovering from jail, bogged down with a bunch of kids, living on welfare and eating off of food stamps or a single mom and destitute! No, so your fine clothes, house, car, husband and kid,s are not a big deal or impressive. In fact there are a lot of wealthy, healthy people walking on the face of this earth, but they still need the gospel of Jesus Christ.

Everyone is looking to fill the void in their lives that only Jesus can. Everyone wants to be loved and fulfilled in this life.

I’m a big fan of cooking challenges, such as Chopped, the next Top Chef, and Iron Chef. But there is one thing that really turns me off, and that is…arrogance. I immediately want the arrogant ones voted off with the quickness. And there is a big difference between being confident in who you are and what you do, versus arrogance and pride. And I have the same mindset when I have to deal with arrogant folks, especially those in the Body of Christ. To me, we are the worst! Why? Well, people who walk in darkness can’t do any better, but when you live in the Kingdom of God, we are to be different—especially when we have resided there for a number of years.

Here’s something to think about…a same sex couple (two men) moves next door to you or in your building (your state says this type of union is now legal) and they have a little girl they have adopted—how many of you would reach out to them and this child? Would you be a good neighbor and welcome them into the neighborhood or building? Would you bake them cookies, or just stop by to introduce yourself? Would you offer to be a helping hand? Or would you judge them “Sinners” and ignore them and pretend they didn’t exist versus talk to them? Would they see you on Sunday getting into your car heading to church with your big Bible, never looking their way?

What is your stance on a 27 year old single mother of five,  who lives in your block and has a minimum wage job which still qualifies her for subsidized housing, (most of her rent is paid by HUD), daycare subsidy (where the government pays most of her daycare fees) and food stamps? Are you one who is upset and keeps posting things on Facebook about how people like her should not get food stamps? Are you upset she keeps having babies and your taxes are footing the bill? Have you ever reached out to get to know her? Have you talked to her enough times to find out what her story is? Do you pray for her and her children? Or do you ignore her, shaking your head in disgust?

On Facebook our self-righteous is obvious by many of the things we post. There are a few popular ones with a picture of a fetus, and captions about how this aborted fetus might have been the next person to find the cure for cancer. We fail to realize anyone who God deems to walk on this earth will be born. And if that were not true, Christ would have never been born and we would all be lost and going to hell. Though God has given us a free will to choose, it does not negate His Sovereignty as God. So, we need to stop trying to shame people into doing right, and instead show them love.

I spent many years as a volunteer work for a Christian Crisis Pregnancy Center, and if you don’t think women (including pastor’s wives and daughters) in your church aren't having abortions…then you are very naive to where sin lives.

Our government can say whatever they want is legal or not legal. It does not alter what God has said about a thing. Same sex marriage has not altered God’s covenant of what marriage is—nope, not one iota.

Back in the early 90’s WWJD (what would Jesus do) became a money making mantra for Christian book stores—bracelets, pins, coffee mugs, calendars, devotionals, you name it. But I think we are in a time we really should be asking ourselves, “What would Jesus do? How would He respond?

Sisters…it is time for us to stop being so high minded, judgmental and uncaring. Take a minute to check if your light has become lackluster or still shines bright.  Jesus says, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind. This is the first and great commandment. And the second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as yourself.



Until next week!

Love and Hugs....Ponnie

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