A “Naysayer” is one who denies, refuses, opposes, or is skeptical or cynical about something, or as I like to say…a dream stealer or faith killer.
I’m pretty sure most of us have met a naysayer or two in our lifetime. In fact we might have played the role ourselves from time-to-time.
Naysayers are negative in attitude and are really no fun to be around. In the world, I understand that personality type having a place to flourish, but it is somewhat baffling as to why there are so many in the Body of Christ. I say that, because according to our Master we are to lift one another up, think more highly of others than ourselves, and above all else we are to love one another in such a way that those in the world will know that Jesus is our Lord. BUT, often that is not the case.
So, how do we deal with the naysayers in our lives or stop being one ourselves?
If you have a naysayer in your life, maybe it’s time to back off from them. That might sound harsh, but it’s a reality if you want to stop having their negative influence affect your life. What we need to grow and flourish in our Christian walk are people who know the Word of God, and live the Word of God. There are a lot of people out there that sort of know what the Bible says, but they are not living it. Jesus says that if we love him then we will obey him. Those are the type of people you want to hang around, because they will uplift you and encourage you to grow in the things of God.
Why do so many naysayers exist in the church? Well, I’m sure there are several reasons, but a biggie is, we have so many babies who have been going to church for years, think they know something (which they don’t) and their true lack of understanding of God causes them major problems—such as being very insecure, jealous and envious. This all translates into someone who relishes in squashing the dreams and visions of people because they can’t stand to see God move in the lives of others.
It’s natural to be excited when God gives us a dream or things begin to come together after years of working hard, and we want to share. But BEWARE! Beware that you don’t share with a naysayer. That personality type can suck the air and life out of you faster than you can blink your eyes. I’m sure some of you have experienced (probably more than once) what I am talking about. You were very excited after being at a conference or have a great revelation about things between you and God and once you tell the naysayer, all of a sudden you are discouraged and down trodden. You’re left scratching your head and wondering, “What happened?” Yup, just like that!
It is important to be around people who have great faith in God. Not just talking-the-talk, but those who really walk-the-walk! Because folks like that are confident and will be happy for you and walk side-by-side to help you. Why? Because that is what Jesus commands us to do, for those of us who are in the Household of Faith.
If you are a naysayer, then it’s time to figure out why? Why are you so insecure that you can’t be happy for others? Why are you one of those folks who add merit to “Misery loves company?” What is it that stops you from believing that God loves you as much as others? Why do you feel you have to be a “dream stealer” or a “naysayer”?
Sisters, I encourage you to read your Bibles, so you know what it says. Don’t just read scriptures here and there and pick out what you want, but read the entire Bible so that you really know what it says, what was going on at the time and who it’s really meant for. This will help you to know that you are on track with what God is saying and you will become good at dividing the Word and know the difference between a naysayer and a person filled with godly wisdom when you meet one.
If you have a dream that God has given you, make sure to only share it with one who will encourage and help you reach the goal that God has set before you. If you are one who is afraid to dream, get around strong faith people so you can be built up and encouraged in the things of of our Lord.
Love & Hugs
Ponnie
See you next Monday!
2 comments:
what if your married to the naysayer. Backing off isn't so easy
In marriage the man is the head, and though a lot of women don't want that to be....it is according to God. That's why I encourage women so much to read the Bible.
I stay away from telling married what to do because I don't know the whole story (only get to hear one side) and there are 3 sides according to the Bible. So, my advice is to pray for yourself and your husband. Because it might be that he is to say "No." It could be that you want something and God is saying no through your husband? I don't know, but God does, and that is who you must seek!
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